Yesterday,one of my friend(call A)absent. So,the others two(call B and C)in the room talk about her.the funny thing is if B absent than C will gossip about B with A. And if everybody comes they will gossip together about somebody else.its not hard to know that if i absent,who they will talk about. I cant trust them all. Even CS like to gossip. It makes me think about gossip system.we like to gossip About somebodyelse because we think we better than the person we talked about. We judge. I remember there a statement " muslim is a mirror to another muslim. And buddha said," when world wrong,than i becoming wrong too".people hate somebody who have habbit as bad as themself. But we just not realise it or we dont want to accept it. Here for example: somebody who egoist wouldnt like to friend with another egoist person. To be honest i like gossiping too.
So the conclution is, when i think somebody doing a wrong thing, ill stop my judgement tought, look at myself, and fixed my own bad habbit.
For now ill try to not judge gossiper and shut my mouth eventough i have hot gossip
Tidak ada komentar:
Posting Komentar